RE3 – Family DEMO

Learning how to respond most effectively
to your offspring’s emotional reactions to bad news.


In RE³ Family you will see a son or daughter’s emotional reactions when they hear unwelcome news from a father or mother. You will also choose whether the parent you are about to see has a close or strained relationship with her or his son or daughter.

Even if you are not a parent we believe that you will benefit from RE³. What you will learn should apply to other intimate relationships.

  • Everything that is said, all the choices and feedback, are exactly the same for the male or female parent, and for the male or female adolescent. So, just choose one (mother or father, son or daughter) and stick with it.
  • You will be able to select which emotion the son or daughter is feeling, however we will show you sadness first. You will be offered a number of choices about what to say in response.


After you make a choice, you will receive feedback from Dr. Paul Ekman about the advantages or disadvantages of your choice. We encourage you to select all of the choices, even ones you might not consider making, in order to learn from the feedback provided for each choice.

View every emotion the adolescent shows

  • Select every choice about what to say and listen and watch the feedback about each choice.
  • You will learn from the feedback even about choices you would never make.


View the adolescent’s reactions when there is a close or strained relationship

  • What might be best to say depends not just on the adolescent’s emotional reactions, but the quality of the relationship the parent has with the adolescent. You will choose whether there is a close relationship, or a strained relationship.
  • You can switch from close to strained whenever you wish.
  • Once completed, go back to your account and download the RE³ Family Summary for a recap of what you’ve learned.


It is up to you: what to watch, what feedback to get, and how much of RE³ you use. Remember you don’t have to finish it all in one sitting. You have RE3 for one year. Use the Navigation button to view where you are in the program and to change your selections. The choices are yours!

To make this most applicable to you, please answer the following questions:

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  • Child feels the emotion of

Change the relationship with your child

Change the emotional response of your child

Father Daughter Good Relationship Sadness


Before choosing your response, read through all the choices, then select the best one.

  • A) Say nothing; act as if there was no sad expression.
  • B) “I am sorry, but there is nothing I could do about it.”
  • C) “I am sorry, I wish it didn’t work out this way.”
  • E) “Please don’t blame me; you mother’s out of town, the baby-sitter is sick and it is vital to my job that I be at the boss’s dinner.”
  • F) “All of us face disappointments in life; you have to learn how to get used to it.”